- The heart of the problem is a problem of the heart. Selfishness is the heart of problems in marriage.
- Without the Holy Spirit we are incapable. You can go to all the marriage seminars you want, learn all the techniques and tactics, etc. but none of those things will really be successful unless you let the Holy Spirit come into your heart.
- Instead of focusing on changing your spouse- their flaws or weaknesses- or the way(s) they’ve changed for the worse, focus on changing yourself. Give your spouse a new you.
- For husbands, remember- “My Wife Rocks. Our marriage is worth fighting for. I will… spend time with her, study her, honor her, protect her, open up to her, pray with her.”